FIX IT! DON'T THROW IT AWAY!

I took a call yesterday from a man I met last Spring.  I met with him and his fiance before they got married for Couple Coaching.  Though he was not particularly interested in meeting with me at the time, his fiance found about me through a mutual friend and really wanted to do at least one Couple Coaching time before they got married. They were so impacted by our short time together that they have chosen to sponsor another couple to meet with me!
I asked him if he could answer this question for me:  "On a scale of 1-10  (1 being not very helpful and 10 being very helpful),  how would he rate the benefit he and his fiance gained from our one time together?"  He said easily a 9!   

They were proactive and met with me before getting married.  They have 'understanding' and new 'language' to use when (not if) challenging times come.  They have understanding that makes it easier to not become offended or hurt by MISunderstandings.  The same can happen in reverse.  I have met with couples who were so hurt, mad, offended, at each other and after meeting only one or two times gain 'understanding'  that takes the sting out of their hurt, anger or wounds and healing and restoration takes place.  It only takes two willing hearts  -  willing at any level - just willing. 

Though I do not want to minimize the degree of pain you may be going through, I want you to know that it is nothing short of miraculous what can happen in just a few times of meeting together - sometimes just one!

If you choose to take this step, you can expedite our coaching time by taking the Kendall Life Languages Profile by...

1. Logging on to: www.TheCoupleCoach.com 
2. Products and Services
3. Take the KLLP (read the instructions carefully)
4. Set up a time to get together.

Remember:  Successful marriage is NOT the absence of conflict; it is the effective resolution of conflict!  Let's get started!

Make the Magic Last or Strike the Original Match,   

Carolyn Santos

The Couple Coach
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